Ahhhh…I love spring in the Pacific Northwest.

Here’s a nice specimen of a butterflyfish; the kind I enjoyed snorkeling with in Hawaii…

You are free to reprint any of these essays on your own site, so long as you reproduce the copyright and resource box, with all links intact. Enjoy!

What is an adult? While we may argue about what a “Man” or “Woman” is, there is remarkable agreement around the world on the subject of Human Adulthood. An adult takes responsibility for his or her actions and emotions. While we can argue about many qualities and attributes, I think we can all agree that the world needs all the adults it can get.

We can address this core question of human maturation by cross-referencing two ancient cultural models of human life: the Hero’s Journey (found in various forms in all world myth and literature), which proposes a ten-step process for growth and progress, and the yogic Chakras which suggest seven basic levels of human existence. This new series of articles is designed to address this basic pattern, one step at a time. There will be eighteen basic parts–look for them!

The first step of the Hero’s Journey is THE HERO IS CONFRONTED WITH A CHALLENGE. In fiction, this might be “Come with me, Luke, and learn the way of the Force!” or a mother finally realizing her child is autistic. In our lives, it might be a sense of unease with our careers, a dissatisfaction with our excess flab, or a yearning to find our Soul Mate. We can have the careers we crave, the bodies we admire (and in general, if you wouldn’t find your own body attractive, there is a serious mis-match between your values and your actions) and a mate who appeals to every aspect of our psyche as well as supporting us in being the very best we can be. We CAN have it all–many have. But there is so much misinformation, as well as encouragement to be mediocre, that good people often can’t find their way to health and happiness.

We can end this by, first, demanding that we actually examine our lives. Look at all three basic aspects: career, relationship, physical health/fitness. Are you living up to your full potential in each? Is your career a source of pleasure or pain? Is your core relationship a source of infinite joy, or simply a dull coupling? Is your body vibrant and alive, or just a bag of negative emotions, a wall protecting a wounded heart, the easy movement and vast energy of childhood a distant memory?

Well, to change this, your first step is that you must SEE it. Must ACKNOWLEDGE it, must wake up and stop dreaming, must stop numbing yourself with denial. If you are successful in any ONE of these three arenas, if you can look deeply enough, you will find the knowledge and strength to succeed in all three. But you must be willing to admit that you want more. Demand more. That is the first step, and it is a powerful one.

First came the Word. The truth will set you free.
©2010 STEVEN BARNES

Just looking at this pictures takes me back to happy times: sandy beaches, sparkling blue water, colorful reef fish, and warm nights heady with exotic fragrance.

Here’s my tribute to the sport:

Enjoy!

Here are the rules that I must follow:

1. Thank the person who gave you the award and link to them.
2. Add the award to your blog.
3. Tell six outrageous lies about yourself and One Truth.
4. Nominate six creative liars…I mean writers and post links to them.
5. Let your nominees know they have been nominated.

And now, to see if I can comply! Here my seven statements. Can you guess which one is true? (Answers are in comments.)

1. I’m an only child
2. My favorite movie is Con Air
3. I have 3 dogs and 4 cats
4. My current WIP is a contemporary mystery
5. I’m a mother of twins
6. My favorite form of relaxation is watercolor painting
7. I love reading horror stories

And here are my nominees:

Rhonda Stapleton

Gwen Hayes

Gwen Mitchell

Ciar Cullen

Lee Bross

Thomma Lyn Grindstaff

I love watching the Winter Olympics, but THIS is my version of “extreme skiing”…